Will any offender like SUGUS LEGASPI, the evil clown, admit to his crime? He will defend himself by all means.... to gain public sympathy.... to use my name and my daughter's.
Please be careful readers in your judgment. It is his words against Mrs. Dy's.. If you had a child who is molested, how would you feel? You do not know this guy. He is an artist and will deceive... put on happy face.. with smiles... who could no less paint a picture of a happy family when he is not.. he has to clear his name to earn money money money.. that is it, plain and simple put. (he will say this is past history.. LOL)... Case is in fact in court, he has not been receiving his subpoena and throwing in the trashan, causes delay.. that is why, it is now shown in the NBI, for crying out loud!
He would not even admit to his 5-6 usurious lending.... and his perrennial womanizing.. he left ME for a prostitute.. .has forced a woman whom he got pregnant to go for abortion.... came back to Catmon (my ANCESTRAL home) allegedly because he had a hard time sustaining his vices with his menial income as a clown.... my brother and i own house (where sugus lives and brings his family) and i have a brand new car under my car plan.. am the breadwinner so to speak...have a stable job as manager in metrobank and a application to go to abroad to be with a brother. O cmon, he used to say i died when i married you... i regret .. you arer my biggest mistake.. am looking for the right woman for me... Our daughter is most pitiful! But for crying out loud.. stop pretending.. and covering up... and telling me you love me.. DUH!?
Would a professional decent man lend money for 6% a month to poor hardup people? Let him deny this once and for all.... ask CCP staff... tsk tsk tsk... He collected all the ATM cards of the lowly... janitors, guards, cooks, waiters...as collateral.. ... Loan shark is he! Damn!
I SHOULD KNOW.. AM THE LEGAL WIFE HE WAS IS AND WILL BE CHEATING. WE ARE NOT HAPPY.... WE NEED TO STICK IT OUR FOR THE KID... WE DONT WANT TO KID TO COME FROM A BROKEN FAMILY, LIKE SUGUS' FAMILY...
Tuesday, June 16, 2009
Friday, May 15, 2009
Staying Married for the Sake of Naomi
Someone sent this to me by a cousin in the US..... but it is hard to do.
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Hi Elizabeth,
I'm against staying married for the children, no matter what their age. It's easier to do it when they are younger rather than older (say grown adults, even older teens) because they will be angry more than likely with both of you for getting an annulment. Just like the case of Sugus and his brothers. Don't they hate their father a lot? There are just so many reasons to NOT stay married for the sake of the children. In a sense it's like saying there's nothing wrong with the marriage, when there really is. So it's deceiving in a way to them, only for them to find out later in life, that you only stayed together for them. Hence, the angryness because they could feel that you both lied and betrayed them.
If you can get along now for the sake of the children, then there should be no problem in you getting along and co-parenting her during the separation period. They'll adjust, children are very resilient beings. It'll take some time but they'll get used to the separation, etc. It's better to do it now, than later when it'll be harder to deal with and explain to the child God bless.
A Friend
P.S. How could you respect someone who married you for money? For convenience, for comfort, for show, for wrong beliefs. for peer and community pressure? If not, why is he not providing; living in your ancestral house, using your inheritance, your car, and having you pay for his debts and your child's needs.
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Hi Elizabeth,
I'm against staying married for the children, no matter what their age. It's easier to do it when they are younger rather than older (say grown adults, even older teens) because they will be angry more than likely with both of you for getting an annulment. Just like the case of Sugus and his brothers. Don't they hate their father a lot? There are just so many reasons to NOT stay married for the sake of the children. In a sense it's like saying there's nothing wrong with the marriage, when there really is. So it's deceiving in a way to them, only for them to find out later in life, that you only stayed together for them. Hence, the angryness because they could feel that you both lied and betrayed them.
If you can get along now for the sake of the children, then there should be no problem in you getting along and co-parenting her during the separation period. They'll adjust, children are very resilient beings. It'll take some time but they'll get used to the separation, etc. It's better to do it now, than later when it'll be harder to deal with and explain to the child God bless.
A Friend
P.S. How could you respect someone who married you for money? For convenience, for comfort, for show, for wrong beliefs. for peer and community pressure? If not, why is he not providing; living in your ancestral house, using your inheritance, your car, and having you pay for his debts and your child's needs.
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Sugus is a weed among the wheat....
Remember this - the book that led you to misery...
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Learning the Art of Discernment I first read Weeds Among the Wheat, by Thomas Green, SJ, early in my discernment of religious life. I had first read his book, Opening to God, and found it so helpful, I purchased several of his other books.
Weeds Among the Wheat is a book specifically about discernment. As in Opening to God, Green writes simply of a profound subject, how to discern God’s word for us in our lives. How to hear His voice.
Every day we are inundated with stimuli. Television, books, newspapers, radio, internet, friends, family, coworkers, pastors. How do we, among the cacophany, hear that small, still voice that tells us His plan.
After each chapter, Father Green offers exercises to help us learn the art of discernment. These exercises can have a profound impact on the development of our spirituality and on how we act upon the message of God leading us forward.
“Where Prayer and Action Meet”Our discernment should always lead to decisions and actions. That, after all, is what discernment is all about. Discernment isn’t something that we do once and then never think about again. Discernment is something we do every day, day in and day out. Every decision we make should be discerned in light of our beliefs. Weeds Among the Wheat can help us all to learn how discernment functions so that we can continue to discern God’s path for us throughout our lives.
This is a book that is valuable not just for those discerning religious life, not just Catholics, and not even just Christians. It is an important book for anyone who is discerning any decision in their lives according to their beliefs.
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Learning the Art of Discernment I first read Weeds Among the Wheat, by Thomas Green, SJ, early in my discernment of religious life. I had first read his book, Opening to God, and found it so helpful, I purchased several of his other books.
Weeds Among the Wheat is a book specifically about discernment. As in Opening to God, Green writes simply of a profound subject, how to discern God’s word for us in our lives. How to hear His voice.
Every day we are inundated with stimuli. Television, books, newspapers, radio, internet, friends, family, coworkers, pastors. How do we, among the cacophany, hear that small, still voice that tells us His plan.
After each chapter, Father Green offers exercises to help us learn the art of discernment. These exercises can have a profound impact on the development of our spirituality and on how we act upon the message of God leading us forward.
“Where Prayer and Action Meet”Our discernment should always lead to decisions and actions. That, after all, is what discernment is all about. Discernment isn’t something that we do once and then never think about again. Discernment is something we do every day, day in and day out. Every decision we make should be discerned in light of our beliefs. Weeds Among the Wheat can help us all to learn how discernment functions so that we can continue to discern God’s path for us throughout our lives.
This is a book that is valuable not just for those discerning religious life, not just Catholics, and not even just Christians. It is an important book for anyone who is discerning any decision in their lives according to their beliefs.
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Although Our Love is Over
Although our love is over,
It remains an unfrequented garden in my heart,
Its beauty quite inseparable from pain,
A wilderness where once was willful art.
I hope a little piece of you is still
Reserved for me, a place you may not go,
But where my room, untenanted, can fill
A moment with my music, sweet and slow.
There are no wishes like a former lover's
That from the dark, repentant night must shine.
And so though we have both moved on to others,
I send you from afar this Valentine.
It remains an unfrequented garden in my heart,
Its beauty quite inseparable from pain,
A wilderness where once was willful art.
I hope a little piece of you is still
Reserved for me, a place you may not go,
But where my room, untenanted, can fill
A moment with my music, sweet and slow.
There are no wishes like a former lover's
That from the dark, repentant night must shine.
And so though we have both moved on to others,
I send you from afar this Valentine.
Monday, April 20, 2009
Love Not Meant to Be
Everytime love finds its way to my heart
There is always something there waiting to tear it apart
It seems love for me is not quite meant to be
For each step i take i must prepare for another break
I don't know how much longer i can take this
For love to me is becoming such a dismiss
The pain i feel inside i can no longer abide
For i feel love for me is not meant to be
There is always something there waiting to tear it apart
It seems love for me is not quite meant to be
For each step i take i must prepare for another break
I don't know how much longer i can take this
For love to me is becoming such a dismiss
The pain i feel inside i can no longer abide
For i feel love for me is not meant to be
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
SUGUS: CLOWN FROM HELL (BEWARE OF HIM)
REFRAIN from hiring this person as host, actor or model (even bit player or extra). He has very bad character and morals. Be careful in dealings with him.. he lies and deceives.... beware. Putting up a nice front...
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FYI in case you guys are hiring a PARTY HOST OR CLOWN ENTERTAINER for your childrens parties Dear friends and family,I have pondered for almost 6 months whether I should do this.
At first, I was prepared to let this awful experience just slide. However, as new information about misbehaviors of this host unfolds, I can no longer endure the thought of another kid being abused. So here it is: his name is RONALD LEGASPI but known as SUGUS in the kiddie party planning and entertainment as well as the theater industry. He is about 42-years old and has claimed to an actor and commercial model. He is a great womanizer claiming to have had sex with over 100 women to date from whores, artists, GROs, students, etc. He had a couple of mistresses who were used abused and hurt. My private investigator has also reported that he was reprimanded by a police officer having oral sex at a Makati parking lot and he had paid 7,000 for the offense. Friends of his says that he is in a very miserable and bad marriage and insecured of his banker-trader wife from metrobank main office.
Anyways, my bad experience happened in March this year 2008 when I threw a party for my son at a clubhouse in Greenhills in San Juan City. Guests observed that this host Sugus was always staring at my other kid, my daughter who is 10 years old. During parlor games, she was touching the hair of my little girl, the yayas present that time reported. What came as a shock of my life was when after the party, behind the backdrop, this host unzipped his pants and showed his “birdie” to my daughter and was signaling for her to touch it. My daughter ran screaming but when I called his attention, he appeared to be innocent of the crime. I sent him away at once. I reported the matter to the police at once and had file a case against this immoral person. Case is now with the trial court.
Aside from molesting my daughter who has suffered trauma from this horrible experience, I found out that he also maltreated a little boy after a party after the boy called him an old, ugly monkey. He bullied the boy and made ‘pitik’ the ear. Even if there were feedbacks in the past that he is a good host, people should be careful because such behavior may be only manifesting now. For what reasons, we do not know. But this host Sugus is definitely sick and needs psychological help. I am not out to destroy a person reputation, because it is a waste of my time and energy to write this if my intention is not pure. It is a moral obligation to make people aware of other people wrongdoing.
Don’t ignore this important warning from me. Better be safe than sorry. There are many other good hosts to choose from.
Please, please beware of this person because he could sweet talk you and act very charming to deceive people. Please pass this message so that we can help in our own little way to prevent the abuse of innocent kids.
(sgd.) Mommy Elen Dy
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FYI in case you guys are hiring a PARTY HOST OR CLOWN ENTERTAINER for your childrens parties Dear friends and family,I have pondered for almost 6 months whether I should do this.
At first, I was prepared to let this awful experience just slide. However, as new information about misbehaviors of this host unfolds, I can no longer endure the thought of another kid being abused. So here it is: his name is RONALD LEGASPI but known as SUGUS in the kiddie party planning and entertainment as well as the theater industry. He is about 42-years old and has claimed to an actor and commercial model. He is a great womanizer claiming to have had sex with over 100 women to date from whores, artists, GROs, students, etc. He had a couple of mistresses who were used abused and hurt. My private investigator has also reported that he was reprimanded by a police officer having oral sex at a Makati parking lot and he had paid 7,000 for the offense. Friends of his says that he is in a very miserable and bad marriage and insecured of his banker-trader wife from metrobank main office.
Anyways, my bad experience happened in March this year 2008 when I threw a party for my son at a clubhouse in Greenhills in San Juan City. Guests observed that this host Sugus was always staring at my other kid, my daughter who is 10 years old. During parlor games, she was touching the hair of my little girl, the yayas present that time reported. What came as a shock of my life was when after the party, behind the backdrop, this host unzipped his pants and showed his “birdie” to my daughter and was signaling for her to touch it. My daughter ran screaming but when I called his attention, he appeared to be innocent of the crime. I sent him away at once. I reported the matter to the police at once and had file a case against this immoral person. Case is now with the trial court.
Aside from molesting my daughter who has suffered trauma from this horrible experience, I found out that he also maltreated a little boy after a party after the boy called him an old, ugly monkey. He bullied the boy and made ‘pitik’ the ear. Even if there were feedbacks in the past that he is a good host, people should be careful because such behavior may be only manifesting now. For what reasons, we do not know. But this host Sugus is definitely sick and needs psychological help. I am not out to destroy a person reputation, because it is a waste of my time and energy to write this if my intention is not pure. It is a moral obligation to make people aware of other people wrongdoing.
Don’t ignore this important warning from me. Better be safe than sorry. There are many other good hosts to choose from.
Please, please beware of this person because he could sweet talk you and act very charming to deceive people. Please pass this message so that we can help in our own little way to prevent the abuse of innocent kids.
(sgd.) Mommy Elen Dy
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